These two posts form an interesting juxtaposition.
(I'm not, I should add, asserting that one is a reply to the other; simply that they make an interesting pair, being on a similar topic but from quite varied perspectives.)
Who Am I to Argue with Dr. Mary Healy? - She makes an excellent book recommendation at the 16:15 mark, which I can happily help you with purchasing (along with numerous other fine books and media ...
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